tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post5795067009722916836..comments2024-02-08T07:00:24.593-05:00Comments on Babbling Abby: 30 days later.Abbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15076952934764015215noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-33004293414328546382010-10-04T22:13:52.602-04:002010-10-04T22:13:52.602-04:00i'm a little behind, so i'm just now readi...i'm a little behind, so i'm just now reading this post...<br />just want you to know that you're not the only person who has felt this way, and it is completely normal. and it's exactly how i felt when i went back to work after having kate. it seems we all have a healthy dose of 'mommy guilt'. and if it matters at all, i think you do an AMAZING job in all of your roles in life. truly. it shows. hang in there and know i'll be praying for you.Holliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09865403035379422473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-55798198096799062962010-10-02T22:39:43.076-04:002010-10-02T22:39:43.076-04:00I am at 8 weeks back in the classroom, and feel th...I am at 8 weeks back in the classroom, and feel the exact same way. I HATE HATE HATE being away from Silas all day. he turned 6 months old today, and I have no clue where the time went. I am praying the same for my family...Jennings Tisdalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16952886377152694538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-83179248561750572442010-10-02T21:30:09.027-04:002010-10-02T21:30:09.027-04:00Will pray for you. I know it can't be easy but...Will pray for you. I know it can't be easy but keep looking to the future. I am sure Becks loves every minute with you and I am sure you show him you love him very much. Even when you are exhausted after a long day at work.The Chapmanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13118112118259808238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-85734163049874465742010-10-02T11:05:45.237-04:002010-10-02T11:05:45.237-04:00I'm in the exact same place as you. Teacher, ...I'm in the exact same place as you. Teacher, mom of adorable 2 year old. My husband works nights, so I am<br />basically a single mom 5 days a week and I feel like no matter what I do or how hard I try, it's not good enough. When I get home from work I am exhausted, mentally and physically, and between cooking and cleaning and grading papers, I need to spend quality time with my son before bed time. My house is always a mess and I always feel like I'm just trying to keep my head above water. I haven't figured out a trick to do it all yet, just know - you are definitely not alone.Jaimenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-73715162437696857702010-10-01T19:01:44.288-04:002010-10-01T19:01:44.288-04:00I know I can't truly relate yet but as one of ...I know I can't truly relate yet but as one of my bloggy BFFs I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you and it will get better, as we know this too shall pass and remember that the sacrifices you're making today will make your life so much better in the future! My mom worked full time my whole life and me and my sister have NEVER once felt neglected by her at all and to be honest I'm thankful that she was selfless enough to work hard for us to provide us with unlimited opportunities in our lives and futures- I can never repay her for that!! So chin up and stay strong girl, you're a great mom and Becks loves you no matter what!Nathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09857362957770984026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-79667838126775277432010-09-29T23:12:48.190-04:002010-09-29T23:12:48.190-04:00AWW! i totally know where you are comming from!!! ...AWW! i totally know where you are comming from!!! just last year i was working full time...granted it was only 3 days a week, but it was 3 TWELVE hour shifts in which i hardly got to see my daughter for like an hour after i got home.and my hubby is on 2nd shift so i didn't c him at all on the days i worked!!! i just prayed A LOT about it and somehow things fell into place. now i am working part time.. two 12 hour night shifts. i'll be praying for you! hang in there! God Bless!Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07825320783378835168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-49135945764197334632010-09-29T22:46:16.714-04:002010-09-29T22:46:16.714-04:00Great post. I am not sure what to say. Doing what ...Great post. I am not sure what to say. Doing what we do is hard. Don't give up on any of your jobs. I want to tell you it gets easier hoping that for you it will.<br />I hate that you are hating your day job. I know you have to be GREAT at what you do. I know that you have been through a lot of changes and I pray that it all works out for you and you learn to manage it all.<br />I have always worked full time so I don't fully understand what the transisition is like, but I have faith that you and your family will make it work! You and your boys can do this! You are not alone in this struggle.<br />Keep us posted!<br />Just think. 2 MORE DAYS UNTIL THE WEEKEND!! :)AbbyS.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07733858340351833876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-34719052947216633232010-09-29T21:23:01.063-04:002010-09-29T21:23:01.063-04:00I feel the exact same way. I have to leave so ear...I feel the exact same way. I have to leave so early in the mornings that I don't even see my kids. And I have to be at school so early because I have car duty--so I'm unloading kids out of cars and dealing with parents at 7 in the morning, and my own children are just waking up. I hate it. I want to be with them every minute of every day. But, my husband and I both chose to be teachers. And unless we make some serious, drastic changes... I will always be teaching and leaving my kids. :( So, you are not alone my friend. And I will add you to my prayers! PS I LOVE "What I Wore Wednesdays"Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05810376919819216267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-43091901089410147432010-09-29T21:17:35.395-04:002010-09-29T21:17:35.395-04:00I don't know what state you live in, but nearl...I don't know what state you live in, but nearly every state has some type of virtual school . . . I have a friend whose 3rd grade daughter is attending virtual school! So it's available at all levels! It might be worth checking out!courtneyricolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00354879495266674396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-87122960878098041922010-09-29T20:56:05.360-04:002010-09-29T20:56:05.360-04:00Awww, I'm so sorry :( I'm not a mom yet b...Awww, I'm so sorry :( I'm not a mom yet but I'm already worried about what it will be like when I have kids and I have to work. I'm thinking about you and hoping it will get easier.Jennihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02605035386094237404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-35975554215558060572010-09-29T19:38:35.091-04:002010-09-29T19:38:35.091-04:00I'm so sorry you're struggling with this r...I'm so sorry you're struggling with this right now! I struggle just leaving my dogs for 10 hours a day, 5 days a week, so I can't imagine how incredibly hard it must be to leave your darling boy. I think you know that in the long run it will all be worth it, but I know that doesn't help much now. Hang in there, I'm thinking of you!California Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09547611335469448841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-63990548107940091372010-09-29T17:24:36.431-04:002010-09-29T17:24:36.431-04:00praying for Abs! it is so difficult for us and I d...praying for Abs! it is so difficult for us and I don't even have a kid in the mix! I will praying for the Lord to open a door for y'all to let you know it will all be okay, because it will ALL. BE. OKAY!KateBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04262328021335841613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-23295200739338162542010-09-29T16:57:56.208-04:002010-09-29T16:57:56.208-04:00I know how you feel. I had my son at the end of t...I know how you feel. I had my son at the end of the 08-09 school year. I didn't mind going back to work to finish the year because I knew I had all summer. Going back in the fall of 09-10 was awful. I had such a negative attitude about work because I hated being away from my little man. I enjoyed every second of my summer with him this year and going back this school year has been a little better. Hang in there. I think it will get better.Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07657348650836109892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-39724279082364941242010-09-29T12:53:07.197-04:002010-09-29T12:53:07.197-04:00I could have written this post a few years ago aft...I could have written this post a few years ago after I had my first. I then decided to teach part time & luckily my principal was supportive of allowing me to do that. It is so hard being a working mom & wife....know that everything you are feeling is TOTALLY normal! Hang in there!mel @ the larson lingohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06609533871423094530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-36679312095600703162010-09-29T10:29:24.093-04:002010-09-29T10:29:24.093-04:00Abby, I totally get you. We seem to be in the same...Abby, I totally get you. We seem to be in the same boat. Grad School+Little Children+ Teaching Full time in a new Grade= Grumpy Parents. I just try and remember that this too shall pass and (like good wine!) things WILL get better with time. Hang in there!Sugar and Spicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01955544673501194740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-17812678549389369092010-09-29T07:57:45.773-04:002010-09-29T07:57:45.773-04:00I know its not comforting but we just changed live...I know its not comforting but we just changed lives. For the past 2.5 years i have been a full-time working mom and then last month started being a stay at home in preparation for our new baby (due in 10 days!) AND i have to say I had no idea what I was missing. Staying home makes me feel like such a better person, mom, wife, etc. and honestly i don't know how i was a a working mom for so long. We are unsure if i will have to return to work after maternity leave and i am scared to death about it because i feel like i am finally happy for the first time in a long time. <br />It took a lot of strength to write this post and i cant imagine how hard things must be for you, and i wish i could give you some amazing piece of advice, but all i can say is i truly understand and pray that things get better for you.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11052344779967282450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-78711225309277957552010-09-29T07:17:09.337-04:002010-09-29T07:17:09.337-04:00Oh Abs. Seriously I shed a tear for you while read...Oh Abs. Seriously I shed a tear for you while reading this. Having followed you for years now, when I read this, I feel like I'm on the phone with a friend-not just reading some random person's blog, ya know? I wish I could just drive south a bit and hug you to tell you what an amazing person you are. How I'm envious of your mad teaching skills, your killer child-friendly kitchen creation with Becks, and good will treasure chest aka closet...but mostly what an UN-BE-LIEVABLE mom you are. Seriously Abby-you are. I know that just from hearing you babble. So, my sentiment is that if I got to see you in action in person, I'd be infinitely more impressed. Stick with it girl. You are doing great things, and Beckham will know a wonderful life because of it. xoxo.Shubshttp://www.lifeisfullofperks.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-79946345443558727972010-09-29T05:58:24.805-04:002010-09-29T05:58:24.805-04:00Oh, Abby, I am sending a lot of good thoughts your...Oh, Abby, I am sending a lot of good thoughts your way. School is kicking my butt, and it's only Mr. Kinne and our cat Barney in our little family. I can't imagine how you're felling, being stretched in a million different directions.MrsKinnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04576952404475388985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-59560175822582222812010-09-28T23:47:32.136-04:002010-09-28T23:47:32.136-04:00I totally know how you feel...totally...saying a l...I totally know how you feel...totally...saying a little prayer for you and your family...Desiree Wonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07535869301178520559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-32638247560416855002010-09-28T23:03:16.745-04:002010-09-28T23:03:16.745-04:00Hey Abby - I'm so sorry you are having a rough...Hey Abby - I'm so sorry you are having a rough time. I taught my first year in public school last year and seriously wondered every day how my teacher friends with kids did it. It is the most exhausting and draining job, way more so for a mother. Being in the pre-mom phase, I think about that a lot. I can't imagine your heartache. Praying that there is a way you can stay home with your little guy soon. Or if that's not an option, that somehow you will have the extra strength you need to make it through. <br /><br />On a side note, I have heard Starbucks is a great place to work! And I've done the coffee shop thing,(Reality Tues. Cafe in Park Hills), and loved it. Glad you are venting honestly - it's healthy! :) I look forward to seeing your WIWW outfits!Pagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08121814249623923799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-67671974401434848752010-09-28T22:41:03.643-04:002010-09-28T22:41:03.643-04:00Hopefully it will all fall into place. Maybe you n...Hopefully it will all fall into place. Maybe you need a few more weeks for everyone to get used to the changes.Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08336758601309463294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-56003986752507976522010-09-28T22:11:55.733-04:002010-09-28T22:11:55.733-04:00so sorry to hear that you are feeling bad about wo...so sorry to hear that you are feeling bad about work. I don't have kids and I'm not in the classroom full time (counselor) BUT I'm not sure how I'll feel about being with kids all day and all night too. I think that it is a common and totally rational thing. I doubt that I'll ever be able to stay home with our kids (at least not anytime soon) thanks to debt and the fact that I make more money than the hubs does. It is so hard to balance everything.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15695943009779886826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-78779323869873928292010-09-28T22:10:13.252-04:002010-09-28T22:10:13.252-04:00Awww girl! I'll be thinking about you :) Can&#...Awww girl! I'll be thinking about you :) Can't wait to see what you've been wearing because I know it'll be cute!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13350515087173131155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-66020044566657763452010-09-28T22:04:08.899-04:002010-09-28T22:04:08.899-04:00I completely understand! Sometimes I feel like a b...I completely understand! Sometimes I feel like a bad mom and wife!<br /><br />I am just so run down after a day at school. Then I have to put on my mom and wife face for another 7 hours of the day. <br /><br />It's exhausting!!<br /><br />Just know you aren't the only one that feels this way!!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16808407115510075761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568110501770109156.post-21080558784112552922010-09-28T21:56:18.600-04:002010-09-28T21:56:18.600-04:00Abby, my heart goes out to you. You are such a bra...Abby, my heart goes out to you. You are such a brave woman to make these choices for your family's long-term benefit. The only comfort I can attempt to provide is that you will somehow get used to this new way of life. I'm so sorry you're having a hard time, but I'm glad that you have this place where you can come and express your feelings- even the not-peppy ones.Arianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04094274019512553676noreply@blogger.com